A sensual massage as a means to surprise and please your mate starts with a thorough preparation of the session and its environment, with the proper oils, controlled lighting, music for the occasion, and selection of the ideal moment. To this we must add imagination and devoted care. When the hands talk as they move over the body, the results can be unforgettable.
The preparation for a sensual and relaxing massage session can in itself be a complete experience for the senses.
Attention and meticulous care play a major role in the final result—that is why we must be imaginative with respect to the environment we wish to create.
We must choose the ideal moment for both partners and turn the lo- cation we have selected into a sensual space. Light, temperature, and music are essential, though we must not forget other complements, such as aromatic oils.
There are several kinds of oils. It is important to find the most pleas- ant one on the basis of its texture and aroma. If you desire to achieve an intense and effective sensual excitement, try using oils that are known for their aphrodisiac properties. Sandalwood, for instance, is an Oriental essence, with a woody scent and sedative effect. Patchouli, a more stimulating fragrance, has a sweet-smelling, mysterious smell. Or use ylang- ylang to provide a euphoric, sweet, and flowery perfume.
Before massaging your mate, you must first be very relaxed. You should not massage your partner if you’re tired. Intimate contact in a couple is so close that even the deepest feelings are conveyed.The ideal thing is for both to relax and practice deep breathing in order to open up their minds and bodies, before beginning the massage.
It is important for the person who performs the massage to clear his or her mind and concentrate on the massage. Slow breathing, allowing your muscles to relax, will enhance your inner balance. Before you start massaging, you can ask your partner to softly massage your shoulders first. That way you have already received something before you start to give.