Physical contact is one of the fundamental things for any human being in all stages of his life. Since we are born, we are exposed to it and it is something that is later transferred to our sexual life.
Human contact is essential for any person. This establishes a link between people that allows us to appear union, affection and respect. So much so that a study showed that caresses are as important as food for a person.
If we transfer all this to the couple from the physiological point of view, it generates the expulsion of what is known as oxytocin, the hormone of happiness and which is also related to pleasure. That makes us feel good, and the feeling is really very nice. Physical contact also helps release stress and lower blood cortisol levels along with anxiety.
When you caress another person, it means that you are having a symbol of affection with the other, which sometimes has even more power than the word itself. If there is a conflict, having physical contact allows the tension to drop considerably.
Those who do not caress each other make their relationship lose confidence and inevitably, at some point they break up. They can have sexual situations but if those moments of general complicity and bonds do not exist on a day-to-day basis, then there is no option for a solid relationship to exist between them.
How to reconnect physically and sexually?
If you clearly feel that the connection has been lost, then it is time to review what is happening in the couple and how it can be reversed. There are many techniques to reconnect and make that physical communication present again.
One of the ones that work best is tantric massages as a couple guided by a specialist. They will make the body relax and each will rediscover in the other every inch of their body, what they like, what excites them and what is good for them.
It is about connecting again through the massages and the feeling of the other.
At Aroha Massages we are specialists and we offer you the best tantric massages for couples so that they are back in balance.